Verified Patient

In-clinic
2 months ago
I recommend the doctor
Happy with: Explanation of the health issueTreatment satisfaction

After experiencing an Anxiety episode and being diagnosed with a Depressive disorder, my daughter faced unique challenges to her personal identity. The symptoms of psychosis, and the general cognitive impairment that typically accompanies psychosis, made her feel alienated from herself. At the same time, the loss of roles and relationships she went through for 8 months and the internalisation of stigma against her within the joint family, made her feel disconnected from others. Her life story become so painful and fragmented, that even Dr Singh felt that how would we succeed. But constantly persisting we saw sudden personal growth. We have seen her learning important things about herself through her experience which answered a lot of questions about her identity in life and given me a humility in how I look at reality. Working along with my daughter and the doctor, I like to think so at least made me a better human.

Ragani (Verified)

In-clinic
7 months ago
I recommend the doctor
Happy with: Doctor friendliness Explanation of the health issue

First The Things I Did Not Know Body image affects people of all genders. The start of my puberty’s physical changes, combined with identity, popularity, games in the PT class, contribute to adolescent challenges. Food and weight are not the only issues; my preoccupation with facial features, skin, hair, clothes and height, and striving for a hourglass figures undermined my peace of mind and diverted attention from my other aspects of self and life.It did not help that I had to accept my body type and inherited features, see differences as distinctions, and know being plump in appearance is not my identity. Media messages about teen body image, online profiles, friends, sports, DID NOT. As my mom encouraged to me to value variety in shapes and sizes and to embrace my own and others’ uniqueness, my younger brother was outright mean and I have forgotten the time I cried. Dating is another minefield when you dont know on what you are stepping on. As I started to identify the non-physical appeal and qualities I sought in a partner and relationships, the intensity of my body image challenges was very difficult to validate.GB Singh Sir helped me beyond all measures and encouraged me to to build character, ponder ethical dilemmas, see struggles as steppingstones, and find ways to be charitable and beyond. I had given up being active and interacting with friends. He did role plays with me, with were so embaracing initially asked methought-provoking questions encouraged verbal and artistic expression, write poetry create posters and even made me take a session with him being the patient and I being the psychologist. That was so cool. I am definitely better. And mom and Dad have agreed to let me have session till the board exams end and I am in college, as we speak on Face Time mostly. I have as yet not decided on which college I will go to but I will speak to Dr Singh Sir and ask him and take his advice whether I should stay in India or go abroad and study because with all the mopping up that I have done, I want to become something and make my parents very proud.

A Srivastava (Verified)

In-clinic
4 years ago
Visited For Interpersonal Relationship Issues Personal development Career Counselling
I recommend the doctor
Happy with: Doctor friendliness Explanation of the health issueTreatment satisfactionValue for moneyWait time

I'm a Software Engineer working at an Investment firm in Bangalore. Lately, I had been facing many issues at my workplace as well as at my home. At my workplace, I had begun to feel that my seniors have lost their faith in me and my colleagues don't see me the way they used to. I would avoid any social interactions as much as possible. I would be listening to songs on earphone all the time. I would eat my lunch alone and forget about me participating in any team activities. I could see my work quality deteriorating and I felt helpless. I couldn't even mutter enough strength to walk up to my peers and ask for help.
At my home, I have my parents who are both in their old age fighting with diseases like diabetes and thyroid. Every other day, I'd hear about one thing or the other going awry at my home, water flowing into the house, incorrect electricity bills by corrupt government officials. I care for them. And, I know they care for me too. But, when I know they are going through so much problems everyday, how can I expect them to provide me with emotional support. Heck, I wouldn't even feel comfortable sharing my problems. It would only add to their troubles. They certainly try their best when they find out someway that I'm struggling through some personal problems.
Everything just about everywhere around me is going wrong. Where do I go? What do I do? Some mornings I'd wake up with such clouded thoughts in my head that it'd take me hours to just leave my bed and start my day.
Luckily one of my very close childhood friend who lives in Delhi told me about Prof Singh. And, she made such a case that I decided to visit him. I called him, explained him the issue and told him that I want to meet him in person. After hearing about my problems, he explained me that he only follows the best scientific processes out there that he follows and how he would try his best to help me. So, I made travel arrangements and flew to Delhi from Bangalore. Our first appointment went for over 4 hours where he kept listening to me patiently, asking questions and giving answers. In those 4 hours itself, he untied so many knots that had become tied in my head over time, that I was already feeling very relived. And, I had not felt like this in months.
Next, Prof Singh recommended me to go for a test called the MMPI test. He explained me how it would help me understand myself much better, how it would make me aware of issues that I'm prone to and what measure should I take to keep my life in balance. I decided to go for it as my friend had also gone for it and she found it to be an eye opener. Next morning, I gave the test. Later in the afternoon, Prof Singh helped me understand the report, what it said and what that meant. And, I could now see many things that I wasn't even aware of earlier. Many things that I had been doing with a positive outlook were actually the ones that were hurting me. Then, there were issues that I felt had less importance but no it was high time for them to be addressed. An eye opener indeed.
It's been 3 months now. Things at my home are not so much better now, but thankfully, I have the energy to manage things at my workplace. And, I have the energy to figure out ways to help my parents back home and keep them happy too. I'm writing this feedback to serve as a thank you to Prof Singh for helping me out.
Also, I should mention that when my friend told me about the Prof Singh's consultation fee and the cost of test, I was in two minds about going through all this trouble. But, today, it feels like every penny was worth it. In fact, I feel that Prof Singh actually charge less for his time than he could.

Yash (Verified)

In-clinic
4 years ago
I do not recommend the doctor
Hoped for better: Explanation of the health issueTreatment satisfactionValue for money Wait time

My review is not a simple good/bad.
Small introduction first, I am a male 20 year old college student. I have been struggling with myself since childhood. I have knowledge but have trouble applying it because I lose focus easily. I tried many different things for years but nothing worked. I recently got interested in neuroscience and realized that my problem may not be motivational.
After few days of research(books, videos, articles etc), all signs pointed at ADHD. I went to AIIMS where after listening to my story for 5 mins, doctor wrote me a prescription for ADHD. I was unconvinced of this 5 minute diagnostic and didn't want to bullshit myself. So, I started searching online for the doctors with experience in diagnosing and treating ADHD. After some research I came across Dr. Singh. I was impressed by his profile on practo. Great bio, experience and feedbacks( 95% recommendation rate with 241 votes). I thought, "FINALLY someone who can actually help me". So, after 2-3 calls I set up an appointment.
When I arrive for my first appointment, he was seeing another patient(she had an appointment before me). That was not a problem for me because I thought it's good that he is thorough with his patients. I waited 20-30 mins. After which he took a small break and then we started. We chatted for 5-10 mins. I told him about:-

(i) My inability to maintain focus on one thing. I have started more than 100 projects in last 3 years while finishing only 10 of them.
(ii) I drift off to some other stream of thought in the middle of a conversation.
(iii) Not able to bring out the knowledge and skills I know I have.
(iv) My life will go downhill if I didn't do something about my problems right now.

Then, he said that he would like to do a test. It will cost 7k. He loads up the test on his laptop and gives me the mouse. I moved the cursor to answer the question and the software froze up. Instead of admitting that it was a fault in the software, he told me that I moved the cursor too quickly which crashed the software. First time I have ever heard of such a reason in my 12 years of experience with computers. Just to be clear, there was no anger involved. He blamed it on me very casually. I just went with his flow and didn't oppose, since all I cared about was knowing and fixing my problem. In all the later conversations we had, he will casually brought up how I cost him money and how he generously didn't ask me any money for it. Classic psychology. Constantly reminding me that I owe him.
After the software crash, he said he was tired and asked me if it is okay to reschedule the appointment for another day. I didn't want a tired doctor looking at me. So, we rescheduled it to the weekend morning.
I arrived in the morning and retook the test. This time, moving cursor as slowly as I can. I finish the test, he takes a quick look at the result and told me that I do not have ADHD. He writes some brain supplements on a piece of paper and tells me to look into them. Due to another appointment, he told me to continue our discussion in the evening.
I came again in the evening. I asked him questions about my diagnosis. He didn't provide me with satisfactory answers. Most of his answers were along the line of "just try the supplements". He also told me to write him a review on practo as payment for all the money I cost him.
Later that day I called him to tell him that he did not give me a proper prescription, just some names on a rough paper. Who will take responsibility of any side effects? He snapped. Shouted at me and told me to just take back my money(appointment + the successful test). I just hung up.
Next day he calls me in a cheerful manner like last night didn't happen. He told me that I haven't written his review yet. Then, he stays on the phone helping me write the review. He told me to write honestly. I didn't say anything opposing. Again, because I just didn't care as long as I solve my problem. I finished the review. He told me that I can call him if the pharmacist asks for a written prescription(spoiler alert: they didn't).
I order the supplements and patiently take them for 1 week. Then, I call him to say that I am not seeing any kind of effect AT ALL. Instead of telling me to be patient or "it will take more time", he went to the same routine, "come and take your money back". I have had enough. We are talking about my life(or brain to be precise), not some faulty pen drive in warranty. Ended the conversation and that was it. I took the pills(brain supplements) for 2 more weeks without any effect.
To summarize, he was friendly, angry, intelligent and manipulative. I am not trying to paint him black or white, but grey. He didn't treat my problem with seriousness. I guess, just because someone has a great profile on practo doesn't mean they are actually good. Don't judge a book by it's cover.
I deleted my previous review and this is my honest one, where I know how his treatment and diagnosis worked out* ** ****** **** *** ** *****Thanks for wasting my time and energy.

Vinay (Verified)

In-clinic
5 years ago
I recommend the doctor

As they say, when the student is ready, the teacher appears! That is how I would describe my meeting with Prof. Singh. Something completely un-imaginable happened in my life, something that shook the core of my being, a trauma which I can’t even begin to describe in words. I was engulfed with deep feelings of guilt, shame, humiliation and fear.
It was a life-threatening and embarrassing mugging incident which I foolishly walked myself into that has left a deep scar on my mind and soul. The after-effects of that have been so harrowing that I felt like I was hopelessly falling every-day in a deep dark dungeon not knowing how to come out of it.
Thankfully my search here drew me towards Professor Singh, who came in almost like a divine intervention for me. He has, as of now, brought me to a level of operational normalcy by identifying the immediate issue in my mind and dedicatedly addressing that before anything else. I am still dazed and I guess it will take many more meetings with him to start my path to recovery – but I hope I am back from the brink.
And when I think, it seems, only he could have done it. He is not your usual psychotherapist. He spent almost six hours with me in two sessions and got into my case fully, completely and headlong – even offering some out of the box ideas – and they really helped. He literally held my hand in this dark moment of my life – as I found it unfolding itself in front of me. I don’t know how he does it but I am indebted, truly! He doesn’t believe in relying on medication much but in my case he did prescribe the safest and natural stuff – which he has immense knowledge of from his years of experience.
I still remember when I reached his office after scheduling an appointment; he was having a discussion with another client of his which extended much beyond the scheduled time. A part of me was irritated and a part of me was admiring the amount of time he can spend with his patient! And that is what kept me waiting there – re-assured that he will provide that kind of patient hearing to me as well. And I surely wasn’t wrong. It was very late in the evening but he listened actively to all that I said and also perhaps, all that I left unsaid as well.
Before coming to meet him, I wasn’t sure if I would be able to describe my incident to him – but in just a few minutes with him, I felt safe enough to talk about it. With him you can open up about your deepest, darkest secrets and fears and he won’t judge you. It is a compassionate human connection that I formed with him.
I have been a soft hearted, empathetic, socially sensitive, risk averse and image conscious man, striving hard to bit by bit crawl up the social ladder with sheer hard-work and diligence. Sometimes being a good man, especially in middle class India, it could be hard – almost as hard as being a woman in India. I have been a simple guy indulging in simple things, just chugging along, not having any solid relationships to boast about – all of which is sometimes looked down upon. And I have always felt all that criticism was only fair.
After talking to him, I realized that it is this feeling of inadequacy, a feeling of inferiority complex or maybe the need to conform - that was perhaps at the core of the trauma I faced, perhaps. I regret not having met him much earlier. But I guess, the student was just not ready yet.
This review is not just a thank you note but also a shout out to all those peeps out there, especially men - the shy ones, the thinking ones, the spiritual ones, the introvert ones, the misfits – know that you are ok, that you are fine, and you are real – and that its ok to seek help, there is nothing wrong in it – in-fact, it’s important to do it before life completely weighs you down!

Asmita Sharma (Verified)

In-clinic
5 years ago
Visited For Anxiety And Depression
I recommend the doctor
ANXIETY I have a generalized anxiety disorder that I previously treated with psychiatric drugs. Serlift was the most effective anxiety treatment for me, but the side effects were so horrible that I skipped days and would rather feel anxious. Side effects included , emotional flatness/lackluster, diarrhea, headaches, sleeplessness, difficulty getting up in the morning. When I learned about Prof Singh from my colleague who insisted that I meet him at least once I was not sure. I consulted both my doctor and my psychiatrist and they were adamant about staying on psychiatric drugs and avoiding a psychologist or ant supplements. I tried a few other prescriptions over a course of a year and I was miserable with side effects and substandard treatment of my condition. On 10 October 2015 I met Prof Singh and I am so happy!! It's now nine months into therapy at my own pace, I go when I need, I don’t go when I do not feel the need to, and I am certain that psychotherapy and natural supplementation is the best treatment for my anxiety.
The effects of Psychotherapy were noticeable within two weeks and the only side effects are a some money spent. But then I would have spent so much more on drugs. I realised that. I realised that rather than 800 of consultation and 2500 of medication I might as well pay the thing in one go than be dependent . These are just figures and not what Prof Singh may change , but as an example I mean to say, I did not need to poison my body for the next 30 years.
After four months of the Psychotherapy and CBT treatment with Prof Singh , I experienced a life challenge and I started to stop my isolating stop feeling depressed. I still regained my prior-to-anxiety-treatment morning self (I used to be a morning person and wake up early, with a smile, even with a full blown anxiety disorder). My thoughts are focused and centered and positive. I am still a dynamic feeling human being with ups and downs, but I am no longer devastated by life challenges.
I stopped seeing the psychiatrist and now I see a psychologist instead - Prof Singh helps me with behavior modification, ways to deal with my problems instead of avoiding them.
One thing I've noticed, and I'm not sure which supplement to attribute it to: my allergies - severe reaction to dust and people passing comments have almost completely disappeared. I haven't breathed so easy at this time of year in a decade! I am a woman in my late thirties with no children, and I have no health problems other than the silly anxiety which it it was handled well would have saved me loads to trouble.
My work is really stressful and my anxious mind is creeping back. Im no longer constantly agitated and I thank Prof Singh for that. He is radical, innovative and completely open to suggestions from clients. I have a friend who is a cabin crew and wants to be a pilot. When she met him, he advised he what to do. My heavens she has been selected in GA in India as a co pilot. I am amazed how he transformed her from a blubbering person to a self confident young lady.
I continue to see Prof Singh when I want and I meditate sometimes, I walk, I go to yoga classes every week. I am social and active and busy. These things help, but when the negative thoughts are at their full peak, I feel like I don't deserve to do the things that make me feel better, and I berate myself, which starts a whole cycle of isolation and increased anxiety. *** **** * ***** *** ** ** ***** *** ** ***** **** ** *********** *** *** *** *** ** ***** *** we don’t like to say it in India because we hide but I say it , you saved me sir from a life time of antidepressants. For that than you. Every bit of rupee was worth it and will always be with you Doc.

Suman sodhi (Verified)

In-clinic
4 years ago
Visited For Stress

I recommend the doctor How it feels when a most happy person become lonely in life. Here is my story about my life. I know not everyone will be interested in reading my story but those who has suffered in a relationship will take out their time and read my story. Because many can related there with mine and before sharing it with you all I wanted to thank my doctor for helping me to get out form this and guiding me to live a happy life once again.
I was too young when I fall in love with my husband.I was in class 9th. He is 6 yrs older then me he was doing his engineering that time. He used to come to see me on every Friday just to see me that I am doing good or not. He is very good in writing poems so he wrote so many nice poems on me. That's how I started liking him , because he was doing so much for a girl who is studying in a school and that time every girls has a dream of a boy who can only love her ,can do anything for her so was I. He actually did so much for me to hear my answer yes. and I took 3 years I finally said yes when I was in class 11th. It was going great like it always goes when you fall in love with someone. I have all those wonderful poems with me. Sometimes when I read them I can't believe on him that he really had wrote all these for me. I was very good in the studies So I got selected in engineering . And I was so happy but , he wasn't happy for my selection. I ignore him and took his reactions very casual that might be he is not happy just because I would have to shift from here and he would not come to meet me on every weekends.
I was in my first year he started behaving different like he started fighting with me on very silly topics that why I am so busy in studies why I am not able to meet him every weekend. And I was so much in love with him that I really started missed my lectures to talking him. It's getting worse day by day . then one day he said he wants to marry me and he already spoken with his family and they all are planing to meet my family. I was in 2nd year that time. I was happy but I doesn't want to get married so early .then suddenly he again started behaving different he used to tell me that I should come back to home and quit my engineering so that I can spend more time with him and he has joined politics so he wants me to come back to my home. And I can do my further studies from there. Not engineering but I could take admission in some other course.
Now I was so much in love with him that I really started thinking like him only. I quit my studies but my family was not ready for this. They spoke to me on everything and I told them everything .but they said I should complete my studies and then only I should think of my marriage because I was too young that time.
I again came back to my collage and he was starting ignoring me now. And I doesn't like that. I was the most happiest person and I was no more happy person now. I wasn't getting his phone calls everyday. When I questioned him he has very nice answer that he wants to make his carrier in politics so he doesn't get much time to call me. That feeling I can't tell anyone what sadness I felt in that age.
I stoped talking to him for many months.and now he was like that he would have to marry me just now. I was so depressed from his behaviour that I wasn't appear in exams I quit my studies once again and I knew that I was not doing a write thing but I wasn't able to make me understand this thing and I didn't share this thing with anybody not with my family.
When the result came out my family got to know about that I have not given exams and they all got very hurt. Now they really wanted to speak to him so that they can decide about my future with him.
Now I was not ready for the marriage because I was hurt. They all came to our home with the wedding proposal and my parents were happy that they came and I should marry if I doesn't want to study engineering.
The day has come now I was getting married to the person I wanted to be some years back. But I could see clearly that he is not that person anymore whom I loved so much. He was a different man now.
But just for the sake of my long term relationship with him and to see my parents happy I did not said anything and I got married to him.
It's been 5 years of my marriage and I am suffering so much sadness and pain in my life that I came to DR GB Singh and told him my whole story and he guided me how can I keep myself busy and how can I stay happy to make a good decision for myself now.
Just after getting married to him .on my first night I got to know that he was involved with some other lady and his family also knew about that I spend my whole night alone waiting for him to come and tell me the truth but he is very good in making stories he told me very different story and I wasn't having any option only to believe on him. He is a womaniser a big womaniser I would say but no one in my family is ready to help me to get out from this marriage because I have a child also it's a girl child. I do believe on him sometimes that he loves me but again My heart knows it very well that he doesn't love me he just wants to save this marriage because of his political Carrier. So that no one can say anything to him. I am now taking divorce from him and he is also ready to give. I am only 26 and have seen so much in my life but I must thank my doctor to make me feel confident. I thank you doctor because Of you I will be happy in life.

Akash Anand (Verified)

In-clinic
4 years ago
I recommend the doctor
Happy with: Doctor friendliness Explanation of the health issueTreatment satisfaction

dear dr singh, thank you for your kindness and assistance if not for visiting you, i would have continued to suffer as was. I have been suffering from depression and anxiety for around 10 years. that was when i suffered a total mental break down and lost everything including my job and my fiancee and my mind.
i ended up living in a PG and it was horrible and i would hide inside the room for most of the day, being too afraid to go outside incase i had to talk to people. my brain simplly stopped working and i could not even get it together to make a cup of tea let alone go for food. it was so bad i hated waking up in the morning, and often wished that i haddent.
somehow my ex colleagues found me and brought me to the doctor who they thought could fix me after doing their tech research and who in this case was dr singh. when i met him i constantly i constantly had emotions of anxiety , fear, guilt, sadness and terror welling up from inside me. it was a gut wrenching feeling from my stomach and ache in my heart i dreaded the most. when i told dr singh that i wanted to end it all, i myself could not beileve what i was saying. throught the time i have been coming to dr singh he managed to get me in touch with my ex fiiancee and bring her also into some sessions and helped me overcome my problem, step by step and generated the faith and the belief in me that i would become well.
what i appreciated was that my ex saw what was happening and could understand what i had gone through and she also began to accept me as being one of the many people that suffers from a mind condition.
two ways in which i can never thank dr singh enough is how he guided me to rebuild my life with therapy and concrete proof that i could get my life back together again. secondly and more imp was that he valued me sufficiently enough for him to take my calls and make time for me. and explain to my fiancee that the real issue wwas my behaviour which made her see me in different way.
this was very imp as when my ex came back for me it meant , that i must have been of some value to her and i did not have the right to end my life. people suffering from depression need support and encouragement to keep working on themselves. i have been following dr singhs options and rationales on my self to make the feeling of depression go away and they do go away and it helps me know that i am worth every bit as the next person. and i dont think of harming myself anymore . it takes so much to find someone who can help and in this case my friends did it and whatever they did they did right, and i am grateful they came to me and brought me to someone who took care of me, akash anand

Vijay (Verified) In-clinic
4 years ago
I recommend the doctor
Happy with: Doctor friendliness Treatment satisfaction Wait time

It was 3 months before when i first met Prof Singh. I found him through practo. After reading some of the reviews, I saw a ray of hope in my life which I was not able to find at the time or maybe for quite a while in my life. With that little hope, I went to see him and at the end of our first session, my impression of him was that he is a complete professional and someone you could trust. He is kind and gentle in his mannerisms.
In our first session, I told him that I am 28 years old and still not settled in my career because I am not able to clear my CA final exams from last 4 years. Then, I generally started telling him that I always had some problems in focusing and I have never understood anything in classes since school and i also admitted that i didn`t take my career seriously. For the lack of focus part, he suggested some tests and I was diagnosed with NL Syndrome. That also explained, why I always felt my whole life that something is not right in my brain and that was also the reason for my uncontrollable daydreaming. He prescribed me some natural supplements for it as he doesn`t believe in medication. He said that after a point medication also stops working. Then, he also started asking me some straight forward questions, about my family and whether I really want to do CA. I replied no, I don`t want to but now I am feeling like I`m stuck with it. Then, he very politely suggested me that happiness is more important in life than getting a degree. That I should stop pursuing a degree and try to find some work which I would find interesting because only then a person could be happy and successful in the long run. And he would also help me in finding that work as per my life situation and financial condition.
Another part of the problem was my relationship with my father. I told Prof Singh about it and he said that he could clearly see that in my personality. That is another trait of Prof that i admire, he has this intuitive sense of things. He would listen to you with utmost patience and non-judgemental way but he would also understand what is not being said and would make you feel safe to encourage you to share the whole problem, and that you will find yourself completely in tune with him. The problem was that me and father almost never talk. It is because he is very conservative and rigid in his thinking and I always feel that tension between us. Whenever I tried talking to him in the past he would just not listen to me completely and i always felt frustrated due to it. But now that frustration was bottling up since childhood and was affecting my whole life, i was feeling stuck with it. Prof told me that for my father talking or emotions means weakness. I felt exactly like that. Whenever, I would keep some different point of view from him on any topic, he would say that I`m very emotional and I find that reply really annoying. So, I gradually stopped sharing my opinions altogether in front of him. And sometimes even agree with him to avoid discussion. But now I realised i can`t move forward until I talk to him because it was in some psychological way affecting my personality. I always find difficult to open up with other people. Also I also noted in my behaviour that i would get angry with my father over small issues. But I found it to be an impossible situation. I don`t know how to talk to my father. So, when Prof Singh talked to my father for a while, atleast what it did was that my father started listening to me to some extent and i was able to say to him why i don`t talk to him. For which i`m really greatful to Prof Singh that he was able break some ice between my father and me. Prof Singh explained me some things about human nature and that situation is going to get worse if I do not take appropiate actions. Now, although my father still don`t understand me much but atleast I`m able to see some hope in this relationship. For which, I`m really grateful to Prof Singh.
So, with this email I want to thank to you Prof Singh sir. As due to you, despite my failure, i feel hope that things could get better if I take responsibility for my life. At the end of it all, I feel like I have found my mentor, to whom i can go whenever I`m in a predicament, so that I don`t feel stuck again.
I would highly recommend Prof Singh to anyone who is in trouble. I was sceptic to psychotherapy and related stuff. But, if you could find a right person, it could save your life from getting worse.

Priya (Verified)

In-clinic
4 years ago
I recommend the doctor
Happy with: Explanation of the health issueTreatment satisfaction

Marriage Counselling
When we came to Dr. Singh, I had found out about the affair of my husband from the other woman's husband. He told me what he had discovered and thought I should know. Up until that moment, I'd had no idea that anything was going on and wasn't sure what I should to do next. My husband knew something was wrong, and figured I had found out about the affair. When I confronted him with what I knew. His confessions came in bits and pieces over the next few days. I didn't realize at the time that I still didn't have all the truth; I was focused on wanting to figure out how to move past all of it. I was going mad when a doctor suggested that I visit Dr. Singh as she had some very positive experience which was a bit beyond just normal. She said, he could make out what she wanted to say even before she said it.
I was sceptic as the first counsellor I went to had really confused me. She wanted us to process the whole affair in one or two sessions and seemed to place all the responsibility on me. She said I needed to forgive my husband right away in order for our marriage to heal. It felt like I was being asked to ignore all the pain and confusion I was feeling.
I want to thank Dr. Singh as the revelations were so quick, that all I needed to know that my husband was telling me the truth and when it came to the facts of the affair was like walking in a daze. I believed he told me everything, but I wasn't sure what he was feeling. I needed him to be honest about everything, and if he still missed the woman from the affair. That was a huge part of it for me because the affair had gone on for so long and had ended only because my husband had been caught. Since he wasn't talking about how he felt, I was afraid he secretly wanted to go back to her. This is where I thank Dr. Singh, as the comfort level he created was so immense that my husband’s willingness to talk about that was an important step for us being able to move forward just flowed. As hard as it was to hear all of it, the fact that Dr. Singh helped the honesty which assured me that he wasn't holding on to secrets anymore.
I like what Dr. Singh said, that being committed to honesty can become empowering. It is easier to just admit the truth than to keep trying to control all the information. I also feel like now our marriage is where it's supposed to be. We meet Dr. Singh and talk about our problems and work through them together and our marriage is more of a committed partnership now. We are open with each other and we both are more involved in our marriage. I think our doctor’s patience, ******* ********* *** perspective has helped our relationship change a lot. Priya Dhamija

Malti (Verified)

In-clinic
4 years ago
I recommend the doctor
Happy with: Explanation of the health issueTreatment satisfactionValue for money

Coping with my fathers death
My father passed away on April 28, 2016. It has been over 11 months and now I am coming to terms with it. Initially I tried to just block myself and my feelings and the emotional hurt I felt made me feel more overwhelmed with my grief than ever before. I miss him so much and it hurts badly. My father battled with cancer for years, each time winning the battle and remaining strong. Finally the cancer decided to overtake him and before we knew it, he was gone. I'm 23 and I dropped out of my M Phil studies. We belong to Patiala and there was no way I could forget. I came to Sir when I was surfing the internet and saw his experience and did not know what to do or expect, just that I wanted to understand what to do. I felt cheated that I only got 23 years with my dad. It was becoming more difficult as I realised how permanent the loss was and how much more time I would have to spend without him than I got to spend with him.
Sir, from the first meeting itself was so reassuring that I felt a strange connect with him, a feeling I don’t easily get with everyone, and meeting with him was as though everything would turn out right. With Sirs help I have managed to removed the isolation I had developed from my friends and the isolation I had put on me which takes so much effort to go out into social situations, has begun to lessen. Honestly i find it nearly impossible to put a fake smile on and deal with it. Life goes on and I'm not ready to to yet. I feel sad most of the time, but I am now now passing the days watching mindless television. Just talking to Sir has made me realise the value of family and my worry about forgetting my father, his voice, his laugh, his encouraging words, how he could always make me smile when I was sad is beginning to make sense. Sir made me realise that , my father wouldn't want me to be like this. The manner in which sir has managed to help me overcome my problems sleeping and experiencing panic attacks, has helped me cal down to a very large extent. I plan to go back in July for my studies again and though I am scared to face it, I have learnt to take care of myself and my mother as I have started to work to taking care of myself. I owe a great deal to sir, who treated me more like a daughter than a patient and helped me overcome may feelings of uselessness.
I never knew that grief is so hard, and that it feels unbearable. But sir has managed to get me thinking rationally and for me, it seems that time has made things a bit lighter with his helping and soothing nature. I still feel so overwhelmed and I don't know what to do, but I am able to handle the loss a bit better now.I guess I want to share my story, so that others know that we can overcome to some degree the distress we face in our lives if we can get the right person to show us how to. Malti Yadav

Tina Johri (Verified)

In-clinic
4 years ago
Visited For Patient Counselling
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Marriage Counselling
Extreme Distress is how I would explain, why I visited Dr Singh. I had been married for 8 years, and what was a love marriage, became a terrible problem between my father and my husbands family. I am the eldest and it is my responsibility to make a trend for my brothers and sisters. My father was very supportive and never force me to study or do anything against my wishes. I have been a very happy girl and now with so much time I have become a very moody person. We had our baby boy 4 years ago and we thought the troubles would go away. But it only became more serious as now I had to look after my baby also and I really wanted to work also. When I came to Dr Singh, I was not sure I could tell him everything, but I was wrong. Somewhere in the last 6 months he tool responsibility for my family and met my husband also.
It is not good to say I also may have been somewhere wrong. But I just wanted all the simple things in life like love, a family and a job. Maybe my problem was that I can shout very loudly and this also I am now controlling. If I say Dr Singh is just a doctor I would be wrong in saying this. His way of making you feel so comfortable and confident are very different. Being with him regularly and questioning him, I can say I have learnt a lot about my family and myself. It is difficult to admit, but after my baby’s birth, I also had started to love someone who was married. I am not lying. This was also troubling me a lot in my mind because, after 1 year, I had began to feel he will not leave his wife. This was very disturbing and when I told Dr Singh about it, i felt so ashamed. But I wanted to be happy. How to explain what being sad can do.
I am 35 now, and I wish I had come to him earlier. I could have saved so much with my life and sadness that does not go away now when I think of my past life. Mostly I cry when I think of my father, but I also feel that I should have given more time to my studies and becoming something. Dr Singh has been like a strong person for us. He is our guide and well-wisher and a lot of decisions we take, now we first talk to him about it. One thing that he has helped a lot with is keeping me away from depression medicines as I do not want to gain weight and how long can I take medicines for my mind. The other thing is that mu husband has also become more quite and less aggressive as when he talks to Dr Singh he is able to express himself much more better. It is not easy to find a well wisher and a guide, and this is why we are now definitely much better. We would like to thank Dr Singh for his extreme kindness and gentleness. Tina Johri

Neetu Menon (Verified)

In-clinic
4 years ago
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Divorce
Recently my husband and I almost separated, and over the course of a few weeks the life we'd made broke apart. The new reality did not represent a kind of progress. But it was in fact a regression. You break a glass: the new reality is that it is broken. I had to get used to the new reality. My young daughters would have to get used to the new reality. But the new reality, as far as I could see, was only something broken. It had been created and for years it had served its purpose, but in pieces it was good for nothing.
My husband believed I had treated him roughly. This belief of his couldn't be shaken: his whole world depended on it. Before I landed up at Prof Singh’s calm room, If someone were to ask me what disaster this was that had befallen my life, I might have asked if they wanted the story or the truth. For me, life's difficulty has generally lain in the attempt to reconcile these two. My own children do that, forcing my husband's hand into mine when we're all together. They're trying to make the story true again, or to make the truth untrue.
Their growing neutrality worried me into taking action as I saw they were becoming disillusioned. And my husband saying I was a feminist, in the raw bitter weeks after we decided we should separate. He believed he had taken the part of a woman in our marriage, and seemed to expect me to defend him against myself, the male oppressor. Dr Singh very quietly asked him how would he like half of everything, including the children and how does he propose to divide children in half. I think that stopped him cold. What we got was an understanding of how maybe we had denied each other, what we expected for ourselves from the other. The first few visits were confusing.
My own thinking was had I as a mother, been denied? The pregnancy, the childbirth, the slow rebuilding of every corner of my private world that motherhood has entailed? I think Dr Singh understood when he raised the issue of what he called a pact of silence, a treaty that gave him and me equality, that I would not invoke the primitivism of the mother or innate superiority. How I have changed from angst of thinking my womanhood is a fraud, manufactured by others for their own convenience; that I was not born but made, is surprising to me also. As my husband began to respond to understanding that he does not have to fight that we should not have a joint bank account or a house in joint names he began to accept that our upbringing from my parents of male values to us, as daughters could come in a circle to his daughters. I think that hit him quite hard, and how Dr Singh did it, in his soothing voice was absolutely amazing. It was like a trance. I also understood that choosing to remain a lot out of the city may be my escape from my daily commitments , I may have signed up for when we got married.
The sad part is that my children have been roused from the unconsciousness of childhood; theirs is the pain and the gift of awareness. But I credit Prof Singh from stopping us from having two homes, to having one home. I appreciate it that I understood that that rescue was neither wanted nor required , that two halves are what made up a whole. Our combined sessions and our conversation helped me not keep missing my footing.
In the neutrality of Dr Sings consulting room the whole past has been revisited, but with a difference. My husband knows what to do and I know that he knows what I go through and he is not aggressive anymore. Neither am I. As we learnt, and that includes me, how Dr Singh helped keep the family together and how he showed that the war of words, can be turned into a living silence which need not be disturbed, I appreciated a a gentleman who would put in the effort to help keep people together. Neetu Menon

Mrs Neha Gulani (Verified)

In-clinic
4 years ago
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Learning Disability (Dyslexia) Assessment and Treatment
My son was in class 5 when I came to Dr Singh and after his assessment realised he was dyslexic. Our child had spent years feeling behind in his class, he couldn't read, or do math problems at the rate his friends could do them. He said he felt stupid and worthless, but as the doctor assured him he wasn't as he could have unique ideas and outlooks on the world., as he grew up and that just because he saw things in a different way than his classmates and there was nothing wrong with that. He was just dyslexic.
In that moment the confused, and constantly in denial mother in me felt as though I had found the answer to my problems. My Son was no longer stupid; he just had a Learning Disability and there was someone in Dr Singh to help him and be there for him. However I must advise all parents that once you have a diagnosis does not make it easier, and I had to work along with child and doctor to help him.
The first thing we did was to stop all tuition as we realised that it was just time pass and he would only play games on the floor of his room, and he would make sounds with letters. The school was still hard for him and counting numbers in my sons head was practically impossible and reading was no easy feat either. The kids in his class would be able to look at letters and see words, and he would be mystified by the time he came home and absolutely clueless.
Now with time as he is in class 7 his dyslexia that used to be gigantic has shrunk—that is, all the parts except the memory part and that is also getting better. A lot of the time our son takes the parts of learning that are still hard for him as rejection -- as someone telling him he can't. As parents we feel helpless to see marks taken off for misspelled words in-English and it takes a lot of counselling from Dr Singh for him not to feel jealous or worthless.
One thing we learnt from Dr Singh is that there is no simple code that makes living with dyslexia easy. There is the physical part of not being able to do certain things, and then there is the limiting mental aspect in which we would wrongly evaluate Aditya based solely on a socially constructed norm about what smart he is. This is something that has made a difference to our family life and brought peace and less fighting and shouting everyday. Dr Singh has been able to counsel us through understanding each other and redefining what smart means for our son, and he has definitely ensured that our child's grades have improved and his ability to read the textbooks and retain his reading had improved. Overall it has been a very good experience and we only wish we had come much earlier. Mrs Neha

Tina (Verified)

In-clinic
4 years ago
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Sons Depression
My son is 16 years old and studies in a popular school in Delhi. He is a popular, funny, athletic young boy. However, his depression and anxiety is very worrying and stressful and at times relentless. Some months ago I decided that he had had enough of the silent, constant emotional pain that came with feeling less than he felt he should be. Ironically his comments like ‘what is life worth’ and so on began to worry me.
I always assumed that he was feeling positive, feeling that he was doing well. How wrong we were, and this became evident to my husband also when our child started to skip dinner with increasing level's of agitation which was something I had never witnessed before. Our child was restless, angry, and sullen. The pain and desperation in his eyes was something that I will never forget. It was vastly distressing to watch at the time, and even now, as I type, I feel immense sadness.
I had been to Professor Singh about 3 years ago for myself, and felt immensely safe with him and his nature of compassion. So naturally I turned to him, because I believed that with his gift of understanding the mind, he would be able to draw out my child. The first meeting confirmed that as our child spoke also with Professor Singh, who confirmed with us that his depression had really set in and asked us to try meeting someone who could help with medication. But I was sure I did not want this as the O levels were due and I wanted regular therapy, whatever be the time and cost.
The logistics of bringing him to Prof Singh were nothing compared to the gains he made from his ‘home work’ that he went through with the therapy, which we must say is a unique blend of cognitive behaviour and deep understanding that it get you thinking.
We actually removed all his electronic devices with Internet access, and hid anything that we thought he could use to harm himself with although this was not a doctors recommendation. Why I want to thank you Professor Singh is that you helped me organise an emergency ‘at home assessment’, and showed our child how much we had loved him even before he was born, and that we loved him now, more than he could ever imagine.
The really bad days are behind us but we still can not understand what made our son become so distressed. I am very grateful and this sounds as all what mothers may say, but getting my child back has changed my life. My pain and my depression I realise are nothing compared to what I saw, and how Dr Singh went out of his way, is something we can’t imagine here. My child continues to see Dr Singh and although he still has some rough patches, he is getting better each day. I think as parents, we are forever altered by the experience; we have learnt from Prof Singh how to practice self-care, and are learning to be kind on ourselves, and our parenting limitations or abilities. This is something we will carry back with us when we return to our country, and also ask our embassy to consider referring children and adults in distress to the good professor. Mary Ann White

Manoj Thakur (Verified)
In-clinic
4 years ago
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My Daughter Pia has a learning disability. It is called Weak working memory. I refused to recognise it until she was 18, and I don’t know what to do as I have called her as lazy , afraid, and stupid. I never knew my daughter has lived with considerable frustration and anxiety through school , not understanding why some things were so very difficult, when others were so easy.
Pia's learning disabilities usually showed themselves in areas of difficulty that are in marked contrast to other areas where they excel. She could not learn well through lectures, and had extreme difficulty reading. Pia could express herself very well orally, but spell or write very poorly. I never knew Pia possessed a unique combination of strengths and weaknesses. Her deficits and my shouting all have had a negative impact on learning and have interfered in a variety of ways for her. Prof Singh realised that a visual perceptual deficit was interfering directly with reading, and indirectly with the development of other skills such as writing. Prof Singh measured her IQ at 125. He said it was very good and Pia experienced problems in reading, spelling, written expression, math, oral language, study skills, and social skills. Her learning disabilities were inconsistent, causing problems one day, but not the next. Prof Singh found that it was only one specific area, that was causing a problem.
Once she began receiving appropriate intervention with Prof Singh, she then began learning strategies to compensate for or overcome many of these difficulties.
Prof Singh made me understand what learning disabilities are not. They are not forms of mental retardation or emotional disorder, and they are not the result of being underprepared. I learnt why she avoided and had developed a negative attitude, believing that she could never understand all her assigned reading before the course ended. I understood why she was unfamiliar with the concept of a main idea in a paragraph or chapter. Or became bogged down in details. Textbook reading overwhelmed her, since her mind couldn't possibly retain information if she tried to absorb it all at once, placing equal weight on each sentence.
Prof Singh showed us how to relax and not to worry because Pia had good ideas judging from class discussions in which she participated. He had faith in her and urged her to 'just write down’ her ideas. He helped her overcome an insurmountable task.
He taught her how her and why due to her visual perceptual problems, her notes were extraordinarily messy and incomplete. Pia is today in a Management institute in Mumbai. I want to say sorry to you Pia. I wish I had the brains a father should have to have known better. Manoj Thakur

Ankita (Verified)

In-clinic
5 years ago
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Anxiousness
It has taken me more than one year to heal myself from the mental health problems, that I had started facing due to the stress of juggling many rules in my life. Online first and second visit, to the doctor I was shocked to realise that almost 40% of people of my age group for showing psychological disorders. In my own case stress related to pressure that was put on the need to fill many different roles by my parents and my significant better, was a major factor for the symptoms of depression and phobias that were making my life absolutely miserable. I don’t think I would like to blame, my better half for all my problems, because I did have a little bit of elitism when I got married, given that we came from a very good family. Probably it was the difference in the family structure and the discrepancies in the conditions, in the environment that led to the greatest possible contribution along with the high demand for the social role that I was expected to play. Coming to Dr Singh was more of a chance because I come to my friend to him, but seeing my friend come out smiling, made me begin to stop thinking, and I realised in my first interaction with Dr that, increasingly I was being expected to function as a carer, mother, a wife and daughter-in-law and all this was leading to extreme stress because I was expected to be perfectly shaped and impeccably dressed all the times. This is something that I realised on my own and not something that was put into my head by Dr Singh, but it was the beginning of my own appreciation of why I was in this condition.
Significant issue that I realised in my interaction with my doctor was that, I have spent countless months and weeks talking to my friends about these issues along with disturbing my parents, whereas I should have sought out professional help much earlier, because the only thing I managed to do was to give sleepless nights to my parents. My constant complaint that domestic workers undervalued, and that I am finding it harder to advancing career, or that I have to juggle multiple roles, without any emotional and psychological assistance, were always met with the replies of,” do some meditation”,” go for a holiday”” take a break”, and all this was only adding to the emotional and psychological cost of my health. These are the kinds of pressures that, Dr Singh was able to help me get over because rational analysis, made me appreciate the role that I was in, and the fact that there was no requirement for me to feel as if I have failed. The constant feeling in me that I was not successful, was gradually removed through constant questioning and rational analysis of how life is and how it should progress, and I have no hesitation in saying that the kinds of feelings that were leading to psychological problems like anxiety and depression, did begin to go away with unique formulation of cognitive behaviour therapy that Dr Singh uses. The crucial issue however is that, you have to listen to him.
I also learnt to appreciate the fact that, because of my own issues my partner was also suffering and was bearing the brunt of not only my own mental health problems but also his own work-related stress, and the anger problems that were surfacing, were related to the situation at home being extremely explosive. My advice to all the working women and the women who are growing up today is that, it is better to report a psychological problem and find a good doctor who can help you out, and on a regular basis try to work out your problems with your psychologist, because as I realise that, in my own case it took almost about a month for me to open up, but once I did there were so many issues and aspects of my personality, the Dr Singh understood and appreciated, and was able to put before me, that it is not possible to change your therapist once you have selected the person. So this is something you have to do very carefully, and I am amazed at the convenience and the ease of being able to communicate with Dr Singh that has also helped me to an extremely large extent. I am completely free of medicines, and rather than medicines I prefer to rationalise my thoughts with my doctor, and not only me but now my partner also has understood the issues, and as Dr Singh said once to us that, women and men both come from the same biological planet, they may be breathing air of different qualities based on their emotional make-up but, feelings and emotions don’t change, and there is no requirement to deprive ourselves of the opportunity to change the situation to become better, because it does not make us braver, and neither does it help us in the long run. I completely subscribe to this philosophy now, and there is a lot that we have to thank our doctor for, and this is the least we can do to thank him.

Garima Bharadwaj (Verified)

In-clinic
5 years ago
I recommend the doctor
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Marriage counseling
When I approached Prof Singh last summer, I was not sure that my life could be made any better. I and my husband had been struggling with or relationship for three years . When we met Prof Singh, the kindness and consideration with which our case was handled cannot be described. It has to be experienced. We were also able to get a glimpse into what life has to offer and the struggles that can come our way. I realised that I may not be correct all the times and that my husband and I were not alone in our struggle. This gave us a deep insight into our own marriage and how to make improvements.
We have been married for 11 years and have 2 daughters, and started life as ordinary people so. I immersed myself in the role of mother and wife. Gaurav worked full-time and saw his role as provider. He was involved in our childrens lives, but not to the full extent, that I would have liked.
During the 8 years of being parents we didn’t take a whole lot of time to be alone with one another. Everything we did was with or for the kids. Being a full-time housewife I rarely took time for myself and when I did I felt felt guilty. As Prof Singh understood immediately, I wanted more help from my husband but never asked for this because, I felt that I should be able to manage on my own like a good mother should and I thought he should know himself he needs to help out more, I felt that I shouldn’t have to tell him.
This was a mistake, as I realised in counselling with Prof Singh. My resentment that built up inside of me, was never communicated to my husband. I tried to share subtly, but not in any way that he was able to register and respond to.
I went into an emotional crisis and began acting opposite of my normal self and I wanted to just run away.
Prof Singh was also taken aback I think by my bitterness toward my husband for his lack of help around the house, and the issue is that he Gaurav was confused.He worked and felt he did his part and had no idea that I was so angry with him. He said he was hurt and upset and no longer had trust and became insecure in the relationship. I admit, as we spoke to Prof Singh and I have to say this, his ability to connect with our souls, I was able to stop blaming my husband and take a harder look at myself. Gaurav also began to uncover the faulty thinking that was behind his own behaviours. He realised that working all the time was an escape from dealing with the realities of our marriage.
Both of us had avoided conflict which was how we were able to survive. Prof Singh also realised the negative relationship I had with my mother and explained how I was giving myself the message that I had to be perfect in order to be good enough. Gaurav never understood that I expected him to step up even though I never communicated my needs to him. I guess he was unaware of my unhappiness and completely taken off guard.
Prof Singh made him realise that he may have read the signs of my discontent, but he turned away from it to avoid causing conflict and our disconnection grew slowly over time.We have been in counselling on a weekly basis for 6 months and not only succeeded but we feel happier and healthier and are experiencing a new relationship with one another.
The biggest benefit and gift that Prof Singh has given us is to understand how thinking evolves and that we need to work on communicating our needs to each other. I appreciated that Gaurav was responsive. He realized he needs to do more than just provide financially and is taking a much more active role in parenting the kids and helping around the house. For a lady, I can say that our experience was so dignified that Prof Singh helped us learn how to be transparent so we could begin to regain a sense of trust in each other and talk about life with love and kindness. We were able to learn to communicate with one another, express our needs and become responsive to one another, we learned to be able to forgive and rebuild trust, we learned a great deal about our own self and each other. We are glad we came to Prof Singh as my parents had said so that if I can’t live like this I should divorce. * ** ******** ** **** * *** *** **** **** ***** *** **** ** *** ** *** **** *********** in our personal opinion, we could find.

Garima Bharadwaj

Mr Bose (Verified)

In-clinic
5 years ago
I recommend the doctor
Therapy for my daughters and family

As a father of two teenage daughters, I noticed the changes in my children, starting from the behavioural changes to the academic changes, and I would often tell my wife, to be careful because there was a limit which I said, that a father can do. As my daughters began to grow up and enter into college, I did not like the fact that they would come home late, and I was forced to let them know that if they did not come home soon, I would have to speak to the college authorities, as well as their friends because it was unacceptable that living in Delhi, girls were coming home at about 10 o’clock in the night.
What I thought was happening, turned out to be completely incorrect, and it was not that my children were involved with other friends, but they were actually involved with what they called hanging out and having a few drinks. My daughter story began to unfold, on the day she drank so much that, we had to induce vomiting, and take her to the hospital, to save her life. It has taken a lot for us to seek out therapy for ourselves, because it is after we who are able to understand ourselves, can we be able to help our child. I told Prof Singh that I am tired, frustrated, and that my marriage has all but exhausted me, and there is little left to keep me going, and now this scenario of my daughter, has taken its toll on my mental health.
I want to share with all the parents and the fathers out there, as well as the mothers that it is good to talk about feminism, but in reality when you see your children specially your daughters, being ignored and taking the wrong path, it can be very painful for a father. I find it very painful to write this, but I wish I had read something like this much before, something which could have given me hence of what can happen if we ignore our children, and I would have made my wife read it, and today we would not be in the situation where, we almost lost our daughter to alcohol and overdose.
Coming to meet Prof Singh has been a tough decision because, as a man I know that at some stage I would have had to look at the realities of life, and I realise that my wife was not ready for it, because still in her opinion, we have to let children grow up, and experience life on their own, to which I do not agree, and it is my belief that we have to still share with our child what us good and what is bad.
Being able to understand how things have gone wrong, and eventually bringing our child to him, has brought us together as a family to a very large extent, and even though that we do not talk so much, just listening to each other talk makes so much of a difference, and just sitting with Prof Singh as we try to understand how to move ahead has been an experience in itself which I am very grateful for. We almost lost our daughter, and we brought her back from virtually the jaws of death, and it is unimaginable for me to think, what would have happened if she had continued to consume alcohol, the way she was.The reasons are many, but the reality is that we found ourselves in a situation which we never thought could have happened to us as a family, but the one thing I would like to give credit to is that, our daughters were able to come forward and say that they wanted help, and they were somehow able to relate to Prof Singh, they were able to open up and share their feelings in front of us, and they were able to explain what went wrong in the process of moving from school to college, and how they were pressurised, in the need to conform to the local situation, where if they did not then they would not have had any friends, and I find this most upsetting because, friendship is based on trust and respect as Prof Singh also agreed with me.
, My advice to all the parents is that, don’t think that everything is alright just because you don’t know what’s going on, and do not hesitate to get help because the world is changing very fast, and we may not be aware of what is going on behind our backs. It’s been an excellent experience with Dr Singh, and as a senior enough person myself I would say that, it has been a pleasure to interact with him.

Mrs Nair (Verified)

In-clinic
5 years ago
I recommend the doctor
First of all, I will say that I believed every negative about coming to Prof. Singh. After 2 months I also believe the positive ones. And you know what as time is short and it is difficult to tap away, all the Negatives are the Positives.Whether or not you can benefit from what I am trying to say is up to each individual and depends on the underlying cause of your problems. If you don't need what Psychotherapy product offers because your problem is not related to anxiety, or your Son as in my case - who just started cold shouldering me. Don’t Come. But if you do, believe and you shall be pleasantly changed and surprised. However, no one can know the cause of the problem until they take some action. That is what I did and as I leave today for Mumbai I know that

for me, this was a life-changing experience. My so had definitely not been depressed or as I think but - what is depression? It is so different for so many people and shows so differently and my son had been depressed for nearly two years and was at a breaking point emotionally. I had been taking him too a lot of counsellors for therapy techniques (as well as other lifestyle choices like exercise and healthy diet), but Rupesh always lacked the emotional wherewithal to carry them out consistently and effectively. I was stunned at how effective the first meeting was itself, and I have never seen Rupesh, actually like wanting to talk to somebody for the first time in his life. Besides his own father, with whom he manages to bond reasonably well, it seems like it had been such a long time since he opened up to anybody, and he did not want to get up today, and it has , costing me a lot of money, but I am the happiest mother today, and I would spend the double of that amount, to see him smile the way he did. I don’t know about him, but it is for the first time in quite a long while, I felt "normal”. The only side effect I have faced is a amazed husband, a son who loves the good old Professor and some Money. But what is money worth when your son can’t smile and his marks drop and he does not want to make friends. Worthless. So thank you Professor for the changes You have brought in my’s family, the changes you have made in my son, the changes you have made in the outlook that I have towards what needs to be done in the future, to be kind enough to explain everything patiently to my husband, to take all the telephone calls of my son, Whenever he called you, and never once complaining, and dealing with us with a consistent smile. I also want to say that I my heart goes out to you for the scene created by the other lady who made such an issue when you tried to help a young teenage girl by being so kind. Don’t stop Prof. We believe in you and we need you. Mrs. Nair

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