Saxena T
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My entire personality changed after suffering from Covid in April this year. From getting out of bed in the morning to tackling a chore to going to work, my underlying sense of motivation that used to drive me from beginning to completion of any task at work and home just went away.The desire to work was replaced with constant anxiety and a feeling like not even stepping out of the house. My motivation which was my key activity to living a productive life just vanished and from a lively young person I became a listless brooding person. Without any desire to do anything it was hard for me to complete important tasks, find a work-life and home-life balance, and make the most of every day living leading to not only me being miserable but my old parents also being miserable for me and my wife and small child being neglected for even the small things that are needed to be done in the house. For the first time in my life I found that I was floating from day to day and week two week with just no desire to do anything. I was so afraid of failure with emotions of embarrassment, sadness, worry, and stress. It took me two months to seek help and this first step was not easy. It was a muddy one, with unpleasant feelings, and they can be difficult to process healthily, as I felt that I am not a mental retard. Now when I look back I feel that It is possible that people who are scared of failure would rather do nothing at all than feel they need help at something. Dr Singh said that sometimes if a person is extremely overwhelmed, the individual can retreat into a make believe world and avoid all of the tasks they are supposed to be completing. That was me What I can say to my generation of people is that at the end of the day, motivation is different for every single person. Try to Identify poor habits and patterns and take help to find those intrinsic motivations and really use them to your advantage. There will always be stumbling blocks along the way, but every step forward however small is progress as I learnt. Take help, try and find a person who understands you and stick to a treatment plan, as I did.

R. Sehegal
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I Used to stay away from my parents since I started college and I was not be able to discuss much of my life with them. I have a elder brother so my parents gave most of their attention to him. Once in college I started feeling very lonely and hung out with a group of friends who seemed to accept me with all my flaws. Later I met a boy through my friends and he was too good to be true. He made me feel very loved and cherished and we went out and hung out a lot. We would go out shopping and explore new cafes and he told me all about his life and his family and I became very sympathetic towards him. We got into a proper relationship and 7 months in it he started cheaating on me. Keyword go out with other girls behind my back and go on car rides with them and I would not know about it since I would be studying for my exams. He would also go to oyos and get intimate with them and I would never get to know till the very end. Then when I would question him he would start just fine and become very passive aggresive towards me. There came a time when he hit me once and started abusing me every time I suspected him of doing something wrong which he actually did. The girls who he was with while being with me showed me messages and pictures of him and his advances towards them. Then he would try in say that he would like to marry me and I should talk to my parents about him. When it came down to finances he would ask me to borrow money from my parents so that we could stabilize ourself and get married. Once I started giving him money he started abusing me for more and kept on cheaating on me. I became so helpless that when I turns towards my parents for help they refused to get involved. Then I went to my close friend who suggested that I break away from my relationship and concentrate on my final year and visit GB Singh Sir. I broke the relationship with his help and he spoke to my father to help me and also pay for my treatment. His care and understanding was very nice and humble.

Sujata Yadav
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Nothing can change the pain that I have experienced in the past. My sessions have helped me to calm down and change my thoughts and feelings. I can now truly say that there are things that happen in life that are tragic and unfair. There are people that come into your life that hurt you. And we may see them as awful. But they are there to serve you. They are there to help us tap into the person we truly are. This whole process where Sir helped me understand that there are there to help you become even greater, they are there to help you become who you were meant to be has made me stronger and even more determined to live my life on my terms.

T. Gupta
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We have never met a senior Psychologist who gives only 2 appointments a day or who when you realise , it has been 2 hours , still does not stop you from sharing your problem in detail. It's a very holistic experience to have a session with prof Singh. I would have never found him had I not tried to search more , going deeper through many profiles. A very holistic and spiritual approach to the whole healing process. It was easier for my husband and me to open up to him when we realised his maturity and age. We thought we were speaking to a 45 plus person but he is almost 57 or 58 and this really helped us feel emotionally safe and comfortable. We never knew we have been in conversation for Two Hours and still can't believe it how time passed. A very very kind approach with no rancour for anyone is how I would describe him.

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Should I seek therapy for my probems and dejection was a crucial question at the center of my thoughts . Because how we deal with our inner world drives everything, and every aspect of how we love, how we live, how we parent and how we lead life, I wanted someone who would understand the depth of my distress. My hesitation and my conventional view of emotions as good or bad, positive or negative, was very rigid. And as I learnt in counselling , rigidity in the face of complexity is toxic. We need greater levels of emotional agility for true resilience and thriving. The sessions were very different as they made me think a lot and eventually I had to accept myself for what I had become. Being in video therapy using zoom and Skype also shattered my myth that I have to meet a mental health professional face to face . In fact I found it to be very convenient to speak to GB sir from my home as it cut out my travelling and traffic time. As I had been in counselling before with someone else , I also realised in therapy or psychological counselling the doctor is more important than the setting of the meeting. I am mentioning this because I had insisted so much to sir that I want to meet him face to face that he had at one point asked me to find someone else. But I'm happy I went with my gut feeling and I have no regret. I realise we have to be open to new ideas and options and leave the professional work to the concerned professional, as the destructive work of denial and saying no and wanting things my way only would have made me miss this opportunity of my therapy sessions with sir.

Drishti
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In a world of fluid family structures, the resources I have had at my disposal to maintain my marriage and care for my daughter in my parenting tasks has varied as romantic partners entered and exited our family life. I have seen heightened parenting stress and faced the psychological strain created as the demands of my role as a mother exceeded my capacity to handle things. Today I look back and realise that decisions made by me due to relationship transitions has caused nothing but tension in my life and agony for my father and mother all the while increasing my stress to such an extent that I was ready to give up. Dr Singh has been a source of exceptional support for me in what he called my relationship churning and helped me stabilise my entire personality and mental chaos that was making me go craazy. I have managed to move on rather than break up and get back together with my ex husband, and keep the cycle of emotional turmoil ongoing. I am grateful to God to be able to get out of my toxic relationship in time.

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We always thought that a long-term relationship meets needs for self-esteem as well as for attachment. Both of us my wife and I were so closely knit that our identity and the most important sources of self-esteem was the sense of being desirable as a romantic partner. My friends started to pump up my wife saying that she was a good catch as she possesed everything a person wanted. A desirable romantic partner who is committed to a long-term, sexually exclusive relationship and appears happy in the relationship. Then came the shock of Infidelity as our respective personality styles, in interaction with each other began to become violent and hateful. I think it brought out the worrst in me as I felt I am not responsible for her behaviour or for her constant need for validation. The way I related to my wife eventually brought out the worrst tendencies in her also. I was in no way ready for therapy and reconciliation and it took time to come around to it. Today we have healed, but the images are difficult to forgive and forget. But I am content that I decided to give my marriage a chance again and both of us were able to find each other again. I admit I may also have ignoring her while working to rise the corporate ladder, and never thought about her feelings. For what it is worth I am grateful that dr singh did not let my marriage break and worked with us tirelessly over the last 8 months to bind the families together. Which I now realise is for the best.

LT. CDR SINGH
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I am writing from Mumbai where I live in Colaba, being a Naval Officer. We read about dr singh and as we are constantly posted all over India, we decided to consult him online. My wife's parents live in sector 21 noida and they recommend dr singh to us. I am very impressed with the quality of the online appointment, and the quality of the testing . The online video consult facility has helped us tremendously and been worth more than meeting someone here face to face where we would be exposing our 4 year old son to Virus . Lt Cdr Singh

Ragani
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First The Things I Did Not Know Body image affects people of all genders. The start of my puberty’s physical changes, combined with identity, popularity, games in the PT class, contribute to adolescent challenges. Food and weight are not the only issues; my preoccupation with facial features, skin, hair, clothes and height, and striving for a hourglass figures undermined my peace of mind and diverted attention from my other aspects of self and life.It did not help that I had to accept my body type and inherited features, see differences as distinctions, and know being plump in appearance is not my identity. Media messages about teen body image, online profiles, friends, sports, DID NOT. As my mom encouraged to me to value variety in shapes and sizes and to embrace my own and others’ uniqueness, my younger brother was outright mean and I have forgotten the time I cried. Dating is another minefield when you dont know on what you are stepping on. As I started to identify the non-physical appeal and qualities I sought in a partner and relationships, the intensity of my body image challenges was very difficult to validate.GB Singh Sir helped me beyond all measures and encouraged me to to build character, ponder ethical dilemmas, see struggles as steppingstones, and find ways to be charitable and beyond. I had given up being active and interacting with friends. He did role plays with me, with were so embaracing initially asked methought-provoking questions encouraged verbal and artistic expression, write poetry create posters and even made me take a session with him being the patient and I being the psychologist. That was so cool. I am definitely better. And mom and Dad have agreed to let me have session till the board exams end and I am in college, as we speak on Face Time mostly. I have as yet not decided on which college I will go to but I will speak to Dr Singh Sir and ask him and take his advice whether I should stay in India or go abroad and study because with all the mopping up that I have done, I want to become something and make my parents very proud.

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I have seen so many people experienced unrequited love, that I was sure I dont want to be a number in this heartles game. When love is not returned it not only is painful, but also quite common: who has not at least witnessed a case. I used to think only folish girls analyse ‘ideal love’, that is, the best love we can aspire to. I am happy to concede that my ideal of love includes reciprocation. In my relationship of 4 years, when trying to figure out how love works, I realise I was misguided to start with an idealised version. I learnt that most loves that we experience and witness are not ideal: they are messy, painful, and imperfect. Many such loves are not reciprocated. And yet, many of these loves are also grounded in reasons. The reason I admire my mother. In my case I forgot to look at love as it is, not as what I wanted it to be. My Love as it is became exactly what it need not be a non reciprocated companionship. Dr Singh immediately realised what was happening and realised that for me committing myself romantically to a person involves getting married, or being in an exclusive relationship, but for my Boy Friend his thinking was changing to a romantic commitment being compatible with being in an open relationship. For me romantic commitment requires a deep concern for my Boy Friends welfare, to the point of putting his interests above everyone else’s. I realise that Insofar as people have different characters, different moralities, and different personalities, love and loving relationships can take on many expressions. Dr Singh realised the dynamics happening and through the 6 months he worked with us, he managed to get my BF to understand that entering into a loving relationship corresponds to entering into a socially regulated, or even institutionalised, practice, such as dating, marriage, and the like. Dr Singh with his open logic showed us both that It is easy to conflate a loving relationship with its social counterpart, a social relationship characterised by shared activities and regulated by social norms, and that how being different for different sake is not worth it. How 4 years is a very deep commitment and even raised a thought process that what was my BF doing for 4 years, that now he needed a change? That question I realised was so important as if it was a 1 year old friendship, I would have just walked out myself. I had to beg and drag my BF to Dr Singh and pay from my pocket, and every minute was worth 10 times it value, and there is so much to thank him for.

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I have seen so many people experienced unrequited love, that I was sure I dont want to be a number in this heartles game. When love is not returned it not only is painful, but also quite common: who has not at least witnessed a case. I used to think only folish girls analyse ‘ideal love’, that is, the best love we can aspire to. I am happy to concede that my ideal of love includes reciprocation. In my relationship of 4 years, when trying to figure out how love works, I realise I was misguided to start with an idealised version. I learnt that most loves that we experience and witness are not ideal: they are messy, painful, and imperfect. Many such loves are not reciprocated. And yet, many of these loves are also grounded in reasons. The reason I admire my mother. In my case I forgot to look at love as it is, not as what I wanted it to be. My Love as it is became exactly what it need not be a non reciprocated companionship. Dr Singh immediately realised what was happening and realised that for me committing myself romantically to a person involves getting married, or being in an exclusive relationship, but for my Boy Friend his thinking was changing to a romantic commitment being compatible with being in an open relationship. For me romantic commitment requires a deep concern for my Boy Friends welfare, to the point of putting his interests above everyone else’s. I realise that Insofar as people have different characters, different moralities, and different personalities, love and loving relationships can take on many expressions. Dr Singh realised the dynamics happening and through the 6 months he worked with us, he managed to get my BF to understand that entering into a loving relationship corresponds to entering into a socially regulated, or even institutionalised, practice, such as dating, marriage, and the like. Dr Singh with his open logic showed us both that It is easy to conflate a loving relationship with its social counterpart, a social relationship characterised by shared activities and regulated by social norms, and that how being different for different sake is not worth it. How 4 years is a very deep commitment and even raised a thought process that what was my BF doing for 4 years, that now he needed a change? That question I realised was so important as if it was a 1 year old friendship, I would have just walked out myself. I had to beg and drag my BF to Dr Singh and pay from my pocket, and every minute was worth 10 times it value, and there is so much to thank him for.

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I am a retired Defence Services Officer and would like to express my sincere gratitude to Dr singh for the help he has provided in guiding my daughter for her SSB interview. The guidance that he gave in the sittings he had with my daughter were unique where he made her psychologically perfect for her interview which is the most important part of the SSB interview. The tests he made her take and then guided her to improve her personality were very unique and excellent. Your guidance has been invaluable. Sincerely

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I used to think that people who talk about depression are faking it and making it up to get pity but when my own wife begin to suffer a situation i which she got severe anxiety and panic to go out of the house after 6 months we decided to take it very seriously and approached Dr Singh
The gone by 10 months things had deteriorated so badly that fear and avoidance of situations along with people and places where it would be unsafe to have a a panic attack like a mall even our local vegetable market began to affect my wife severely
This lead to a situation of a specific problem where in the morning she would not get out of bed until I also got out of bed and accompanied her to the kitchen and help her make it because she felt scared being alone and wanted somebody That is me around her
Any family social gathering for any friendship , social gathering she would always avoid and there would be a fight for at least 24 hours before my wife would agree to come and then again it was because of some kind of of a fear that she would be requested for a performance being a good dancer and once you are backtage am back you would have to to talk to everybody after that and this is something that is not possible as per her.
When we came to to Professor Singh on video i very hesitant because of the cultural issues where we thought that everybody will think that my wife is maad and that we have a a person with mental condition at home and we will lose all the friends in our society we anyway were extremely sensitive To The Social position they were in or their husbands held.
She would miss interpret ordinary situations as quite serious and big things in her own house.
It is extremely difficult to explain but when my wife spoke to Dr Singh and I was sitting right behind her. Dr Singh asked me to do so let the client speak and i make some noyes notes contribute something to the patients need for any help I was surprised when she began to speak of issues like dizziness for weakness and fatigue. I was not even aware of these low-grade depressive or anxious symptoms and would attribute all this to her inability to go out of the house and rather than proceding randomly processing maade her do a very detailed questioaire ,. For which I am thankful. that time and feel I got was a very big boon for me because I work in the government sector as a Section Officer..
With gradual trust building measures she began to open up to him with me sitting by a side, I learnt that faulty interpretation of physical signs and sensations as evidence of physical illness is central so as we were being explained we begin to understand that it this category of disorders are basically disorders of cognition perception with strong emotional contributions.
Unlike most individuals we found that my wife with other somatic symptom issues was actually experiencing physical sensations which are common to all of us that she was very quickly focusing her attention on these sensations and then I would not be able to relax and would sit down on the sofa and start watching TV. I thought that the psychologist would recommend not watching TV but I was surprised when he recommended to my wife to watch as much TV as she wants but to first finish our household chores and then switch the TV on and until then she could switch the TV even at 0 volume if she felt that there Was Nobody around her and she needed somebody's company.
We initially we had gone for medication , hopeing to make her alright professor Singh was able to show my wife that her diorders were an enhanced perceptual sensitivity to illness use where she was tending to interpret ambiguous stimuli as threatening and then she would become very aware when I say very well it means she would become very frightened of any sign of possible illness or disease and even going to the party because she felt that she would pick up somebody's virus and then fall sick. Now gradual help over the last six months she has understood that although it is not certain the cure is unlikely to be found in isolated psychopathological factors and that fundamental causes of the problems were similar to those implicated in the family disorders. Before all this started we had such a wonderful life and never knew what hyperresponsiveness was
In my wife's case her hyperresponsiveness it probably had combined with a tendency to view negative life events as unpredictable and uncontrollable and therefore to be guarded against at all times. In discussion it came out that her first year of marriage seemed to coincide inside her with the beginning of the disorder. Additionally being the third daughter of a family after birth she had been given a way to her grandmother to be raised as a child Till the age of 11 years and this also had maade a significant impact on her thinking process because she was in her grandmother's company almost all the time and I must clarify that her grandmother is an extremely kind and devout and Pious lady.
We came to realise that there had been a disproportionate incidence of disease in her family when they were children even today my wife had not fall sick she was carrying strong memories of illness that had become the focus of life as well as the focus of anxiety.i am grateful for all the help provided to us

Aayushi Saxena
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I will be honest, I never though that therapy or counselling could help my problems. I'm also embarrassed to admit that I felt that why do Psychologists charge more than normal hospital doctors. I never realised that a counsellor gives you an hour or even much more of their time, while a medical doctor meets 4 or even 6 patients in an hour. When I came to sir, my panic and anxiety had been intense for almost 1 year, and I was vomiting before every meal and whenever I thought of my work. I was taking flunil but it was making me slow. Sir has helped me get off this and also guided me how to lose the weight I had put on. He has been always kind, sensitive and caring through out. He even spoke to my father when my family wanted to understand what was the problem with me. I also realise that what I thought would not work , worked very nicely for me.sincerely Aayushi Saxena

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I thought that my marriage would be the most intimate relationship, which I am entering into and it will be the small space where we will feel safe and secure. The only thing I have encountered so far is strong negative emotions and events with anger arising from disagreements, disappointments, and emotional betrayals. My husband has only managed to fall into a primitive, survival-oriented mode of interaction, and pulled me also into it and I hate the way I have become. We disagree on every important issue, raise our voice at each other and after that I feel so unhappy that I don't know what to do. In these interactions, we have only attempted to justify our own behaviour and criticise the other person in a very harsh and a very contemptuous way. We both have been taking therapy from Prof Singh, and the general discontentment and dissatisfaction has decreased. It took us 2 years to decide to get therapy out of the 3 years we have been married to each other. Though there are many such thank you’s, my reason for writing and sharing this is that if only we had entered into therapy 2 years ago, all this time would not have been wasted. 24 Months of our life have gone into fighting and making up. We could have planned our baby by now and been clear on where we want to settle down, and save so much of money that we spent going up and down from our parents house and them coming to stay with us. I feel numb from the conflict and irritation and am learning to emotionally manage my self. These 2 years have given me nothing but dark circles under the eyes, and an agitated face.I think I should have insisted on pre-marriage therapy, I would have been clear about what to do at least.

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When we brought our father home after he had recovered from COVID-19 and his high-density CT scan was about 8/25, we were also happy that we had been able to become winners in a fight that was impossible to win. It would be joy that was very short lived as after about two weeks we found that this type of of newly revolving pandemic infection mainly infects the human respiratory tract causing mild to moderate symptoms, HOEVER the hidden door side of COVID-19 is via penetrating the brain, revealing a huge threat especially to elderly people who are more susceptible to its severe side effects and even death to more extent. We did not know what to do and as all of us do, we quickly searched the Internet and was shocked to know that Covid affects the brain also due to lack of, oxygen that it prevents from going to the brain, and we really never knew that even seconds of delay of oxygen delivery to the brain can cause damage that cannot be repaired for a lifetime.

My father began to suffer from neurological manifestations including dizziness, headache, irritability, accompanied by muscle fatigue. This is not such a simple virus and we learnt that it has a direct direct neuro-invasive pathway into human brain cells which is mainly through the olfactory route leading to long-term neurological complications. In addition to highlighting the ability of COVID-19 infection to intensify a pre-existing dementia symptoms you can imagine the extreme distress we were going through and wondering that are we going to be now in a more prominent severe stage and to add to this worry what is the fact that will the neighbours had marked us out and actively stayed away. We have seen a steady decline in our fathers memory as well as his recall ability and his ability to do day-to-day work and we would like to emphasise that anybody who has had Covid at any age should get himself very carefully checked Neuro-Psychologically so that the exact issue can be pinpointed without any further delay. As per Prof Singh the susceptibility to COVID-19 infection may lead to a future risk for neurodegenerative diseases including ,demential, and that the neurological alterations caused by the virus may result from direct CNS/PNS attack or indirect influence on various organs that later affect the nervous system. For example, hypertension, common COVID-19 comorbidity, results in blood-brain barrier impairment and may enhance the risk of COVID-19-related cerebral complexities. He did mention that, there is a hypothesis that relates neuronal damage to the respiratory stress from deteriorated lung conditions. Our father had definite deficiencies on certain tasks that were related to direct and reverse recall as well as spatial organisation. It is not possible and I would not like to share the report over here but this much I can see that the idividuals who are getting better are not even aware that that there are long-term damages that are being caused by this virus to their brain and body which will only manifest in the coming years. Depression, Anxiety, Helplessness, Marital Distress whereu one partner is okay and the other is not is becoming a regular phenomenon and must be addressed with proper mental health caregivers. For dad it was a serious mountain of Neurotosism and Familial Anxiety with feeling Paronoid that was making him be what he was and it took 3 months and a session a week to bring him back to near normal and now he himself calls up Prof Singh and sets up his own Skype calls . We think of expenses but we forget he is our father and by gods gratitude our family is better bonded

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I think that now in 2021 we women need to address our sexual problems so that they can be conceptualised in the same way as men’s. Men have their viagra , which addresses their so called sexual dysfunction. No one is ready to assess the prevalence of distress we face in sexuality or examine the predictors of such distress, including aspects of our sexual experience, as well as other aspects of our current situation. Dr singh has been very different. He understood that predictors of sexual distress were markers of lack of general emotional well-being and emotional relationship with our partner’s during sexual activity. I believe that we need to ask what we desire so that desire difficulty which is the most common sexual difficulty experienced by us can be understood by our partner’s. The majority of difficulties for me last for about 6 months, up to a third persist for more than 6 months. Sexual difficulties do not always cause distress, the distress comes from the lack of understanding in my partner and husband about what I want. I want love and not a roll in the hay when he is of the mood. I am very glad that I could muster the courage to approach and address the issue and that working together with our therapist has brought about each and every suppressed emotions and thoughts to the fore and exposed the normal life emotion’s which generations of our parents have kept quietly hidden.

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It’s one thing to know in our minds that overwhelming circumstances are not the end of us, but it’s another thing to move our hearts to that place as well. We can take the sadness out of our feelings of being overwhelmed by remembering that God is still with us. Yes I mean god for there has to be one but we always need to take another step. Believe me when my husband wanted me to take a couples session , I felt there is nothing wrong with me and he should get sorted out. One meeting with dr singh, and I was so sure that I asked my husband to have some sessions with him. My work life had become so increasingly demanding, that every day was more complex and relentless . And with my personal and family needs, the increase in complexity left me feeling so craazy and completely off balance. I think the complexity of our world had surpassed my own complexity of mind and my ability to handle job plus husband plus 2 children non effective. effective. This has nothing to do with how smart we are, but with how we make sense of the world and how we operate in it. During our session’s dr singh asked me who did I trust the most, and I trust god the most. He asked me to try praying again in my mind and I was shocked but did as he suggested. I felt very conscious initially but I realised soon that it does not matter. God is present at all times and in all states of affairs. No matter what we are facing, we can hold on to Him in prayer. I realised that distressing times are opportunities to remember the goodness of God. Of course we went about our lives and our sessions continue, but I feel more calm now that I am not alone. It was a very simple suggestion, but has helped me personally a lot. I dont want to suggest other people do this, as we are all different. But for me this made a huge difference how I was seeing my life as I anyway came from a pious background.

Gaurav Jha
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We are parents of a 3 year old girl. We were searching the internet for * **** **** diagnosing psychologist , who could help us with our daughters developmental process. We also would like to express our heartfelt thanks to dr singh for the tests conducted which taught us a lot of things that small children should do, and we don't know.

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Thank you sir for the immense effort you have put in to assess our 2.8 year old child. The whole process and the developmental profile was an eye opener for us. Even the autism tests were extremely revealing. Actually with a lack of these facilities and knowledge I feel a lot of mothers don't know where to turn to. I'm convinced that everyone should do a development profile test that you did for us at least once in a lifetime from the age of 2 to 10 years so that they can understand their child better and help the child.

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My sister’s divorce meant a very abrupt disintegration of domestic systems she had in place for years – chores, scheduling, finances, children in middle school. Then one of the hardest parts of her depression after the separation was dealing with the feeling that the pain was complete hopelessness. Every time, we said if we can help her brain simply could not understand what to reply. We did not wait and immediately sought help from Shree GB Singh. He has helped her get over the shock, made her realise she had an amazing opportunity to rebuild her life on her own terms. He has taught her that even if all she can do some days is want to sit with hopelessness, how to divert her attention and keep busy and with what, and as a brother I am grateful to him.

Sonakshi
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I just wanted to gather things around me after 2 years of my relationship. And all I did was ask my BF if he saw a future with me as I wanted to settle down sometime in the coming year’s. I was blown by his answer that he was not so in love with me and wanted things to happen organically. My eye’s must have popped out as he asked me if I was well and could he get me a glass of water. No I was not well. How can any girl be okay to be told after 2 year’s by your BF that she is ‘not so loved’. I felt like a car that has been driven and the owner needs a new car now that the old one is a bit ‘ too familiar ‘ in his word’s. I give Professor Singh full credit for saving my sanity during the last 3 months and stopping me from jumping straight into antidepressants. Conversations with him have help build my self worth and self esteem back, and I am less shaken up as of now and more confident of my needs. Thank you so much.

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I can say from the bottom of my heart that regularly speaking to Dr Singh, has changed my entire thinking. Instead of fighting futilely at home I have started to focus on what’s good in me. I knew how to work alone and be tough , but the width and depth of the sessions taught me to walk on my own legs, still be and feel alive and live by myself and for myself. The kind of confidence I developed in discussing my insecurities and how dr singh helped me learn about and cope with them has made a huge difference on how I focus on what to consider and what to discard.
It's not easy to accept you are wrong , and reconsider when your core is challenged , and you are feeling depressed and discouraged when you see your life as a series of tradegies. The professionalism and insight my sessions have brought about have been worth every bit

. R Pandit
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The experience of touching a life is one of the greatest life building experiences one can go through. But there is no time and no patience to read the number and quality of the book’s in this world. I and my wife speak to Dr Singh. Being a Victor Franklin and an existentialist ( amongst the other ) , he made sure that I found meaning in my life and pulled me out of my suffering and made sure, that the conversation always steered to the acceptance of even the most tragic circumstances as he truly believes that we should not suffer unnecessarily in order find out why we are here and what are we intended to do, but we can find meaning in our worsst ordeals. A childless couple we found an infant with deformity thrown on the fields of potato which was adopted by us. 4 years later we had a son naturally. My suffering knew no bounds until I met prof. Singh. He asked me just one question I still cant forget and answer. I failed. He asked me “ which goddess gave up her privilege for your son to be born” illogical I say. Logical and tears my wife wept.This one statement made me love my daughter more than my son. He is my therapist and my guide and I thank him, for giving meaning to my wife.

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I have been imagining negative thoughts on a constant recurring basis for the last 5 years. Whether it is the environmental stress in which I grew up that has caused me to think about myself in a very negative way as if I am a victim of everybody's dislike and distrust. I never knew that if a human being does not have faith in themselves and that good things can happen to them also, we will lead the life of the victim always feeling hurt as to what will happen to me and how my partner will eventually get tired and leave me.

Sometimes things are very nice, I am beginning to doubt whether it is my brain that is playing tricks or is it actually very good and life is worth living. Whenever five or six days pass by when im feeling good and smiling I get this coursework done something wrong is about to happen, and it always does. Because I know that things will go wrong I am all prepared and on a hair trigger for anything to go wrong. When I overthink myself I try to sleep because sometimes I feel that if I am not thinking it will be better. Dr Singh has been of immense help to me in the last six months and when I say this to him, he actually tells me that I have been a great help to him because I have persisted and put my trust in him. Yes I have put my trust in, him, and I have persisted in my weekly sessions, and today I can see it, with a great deal of confidence that I have gone from the bizarre to new normal. I don't have dreams of being trapped anymore, and I don't have night sweats which really troubled me. It has been a very promising conversation with Dr Singh for the last six months and I can say, without hesitation in that it has been worth the time and money very well spent. I do wish however and this is the feedback that you could please take more than 2/3 clients a day. I understand your condition but believe me when I say that only time will make those who have come to you understand the benefits they have gained.

Vineet Rastogi
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I realise that we can avoid medication if psychological help can be sought on time. I have been able to help myself from going into a depression with therapy. Initially, I was hesitant because I was not very sure of what we would achieve, and session cost always played on my mind. But when I did the calculations I realised that a lifetime of therapy, saves me not only the cost of medication but the cost of damage to my body and the resulting changes in my brain I decided to go for therapy. I have been able to build a significant amount of resilience, where I do not let adversity define myself. I am now in a position to move forward with rationalising my issues, transcending pain and by perceiving bad times as a temporary state of affairs. It’s possible to strengthen your inner self and your belief in yourself, to define yourself as capable and competent. Learning how to prepare myself for emotional emergencies and being adept at accepting what comes at me with flexibility rather than rigidity. Prof Singh literally taught me to be like bamboo in a hurricane to bend rather than break. Or, even if I feel like I am broken for a time, develop a strategy where deep inside me I know that I cannot be broken for ever. In fact I would go to such an extent to say that before we enter our work life we should always get ourselves vetted and tested to understand our personality so that we can fight with stress and tension when we go out to work, and we know how we will respond and this can then be of immense use in our day-to-day life, where as I had started to do, we do not need to catastrophise everything and consider that everything and everybody is against us. I think everybody should get a therapist wherever they are and they should try out a few different professionals before they settle on one, the reason is that it is very important to be able to click with the person who is helping you as you can't keep changing.

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My parents had Covid and were in hospital for 10 days and with all our prayers they have survived. But I am noticing changes in my mothers behaviour, and I can see that she is beginning to forget things like names and sudden recall of day-to-day activities which she used to do without even thinking. We approached a number of doctors but we could not find any satisfactory reason because everybody said that these things can happen, and are normal for a lady of 58 years of age. Eventually we were asked to consult a psychologist and we found Professor Singh on the Internet, after carefully taking down each and every part of the history, he suggested that because oxygen levels for my mother may have dropped during the illness period it may have affected her where her brain is concerned and that we should go to a Neuro Physician. The Neuro Physician spoke to Professor Singh and decided to agree to examine my mother for any hypoxia related issues and as shure as can be we found that there have been changes in mom because of oxygen lack and that it was one of the reasons that she was forgetting things randomly. We never could expect that this is something that could happen and that we would learn this from a psychologist, but we are extremely grateful to Professor Singh and we are also extremely grateful for the fact that he has the facility to run diagnostic assessments that can actually pinpoint exactly what the psychopathology of the client is currently. After the diagnostic that he carried out, he referred us to the neurosurgeon but it has taken us 3-4 months running from pillar to post to under understand what is going on. I would highly recommend that if you can afford it it is worth having a conversation with Professor Singh to understand if any of your parents is facing any sudden changes in mood or behaviour or forgetting things if they have been affected by Covid because at least you can then take correct action in time for it.

William Mauer
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I am writing from Kolkatta.Falling head over heels with a foreigner can be an exotic and heady affair. Merging lives, with one person forced to leave everything to settle in another country, is an altogether more challenging proposition.Just inside the front door of our home hangs a print of Soni Mahiwal. My wife got a very nice good quality print and had it framed in golden. She said it spoke to the heart of what we were. Really I dont know and was having second thoughts. Everything was a struggle here. Even thought my Bengali much is better now I miss chatting with friends in NZ with depth and nuance. And that becomes a problem because we bond as humans over shared laughter.I have found people here who I like but new friends are not the same as old friends. When such people aren’t there to reminisce, formative anecdotes sink from sight, fading like old Polaroids. Yet the flavours and sights and sounds of home remain painfully there. This is where GB entered my life and over weekly sessions and sometimes more he has helped me appreciate life with my wife in ways I may not have thought off. A very intelligent person, but with the saddest eyes, he reminds you of Master Yoda and the quote “ Do or Do Not, There Is No Try”

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12 days ago
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I have been feeling very low for some time now and few month’s ago I began my long plunge into food and depression and suppressing all my feelings, by avoiding everybody in my MBA college. I felt like that there was this black curtain and I was behind a veil, and I just wanted to feel safe. My mother sourced and discovered Dr Singh and that’s when after a month with the gratitude practice he taught me became really strong for me as I learnt to focus on what I had and what I had to do instead of brooding over what had happened to me. I cant explain the emotional breakdown I went through after losing a dear friend and then walking straight into an upheaval of a miserable case of being cheaated upon by my partner. Sharing space with Dr Singh has been quite good and fresh and I am glad that my mother guided me to an elderly mature person who could get my perspective. I will definitely recommend him to anyone as a mature, kind *** ************ therapist

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a month ago
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Being from Canada , when i ran out of my medicines i was taken to AIIMS and I was on the edge, as no one was able to provide clear guidance and would direct me to someone else who was even more clueless. My fellow Indian friends from Canada directed me to Dr Singh. I was so out of depth , and Dr Singhs calm quiet voice so reassuring that my anxiety halved there and then . I was fortunate to have had help around but there are so many who never even know where to go or get the necessary help or the correct support specially in a foreign land.

Jain (Verified)
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3 months ago
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My sense of inner void, coupled with lack of purpose in life is as if I am transparent and anything positive like love or joy just passes right through me. Then I feel like it was never there at all. I have been obsessed with wanting happiness. The social and personal expectations that I should feel happy and not sad have just increased my feelings of sadness and a sense of disconnection to the people in my life and the world around me. For a very long time I have felt that I am going through the motions, and not able to contribute to the world and that my life is not what I would like it too be. It is horrible to be in a wasted marriage at the age of 38 and feel like I am not fully part of the world. I couldn’t feel anything and nothing I did made an impact on events or other people, I existed but I wasn’t alive.When you feel like everything you do is pointless and you’re just going through the motions. Just trying to fill in the time until you die. Sometimes you have fun or something good happens which can distract you for a while, but ultimately there is a hollowness inside which never goes away. I have been on opioid painkillers and completely dependent on them. I have now started psychotherapy and between the appointments I feel better control over myself. Mr Singh is very kind. I much more aware about myself and what I should be doing.The brooding is still there but the sinking feeling has gone as I know I have someone to fall back on, till the next session and I know I will be better now with time. It is a big relief

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a month ago
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When you’re sad, happy things just seem so disgustingly fak and obnoxious. Being this dark, mysterious, brooding figure has so much more appeal to me; it gives me this power that I can’t get anywhere else. If I try to avoid it, if I avoid anything that would trigger it, I end up no happier, but empty and emotionless. It makes me feel like I have no purpose in life like I don’t know who I am like I’m watching life move by me without any way for me to control it. So I stay sad. I like having power, I like feeling real emotions, and I’m willing to sacrifice my non-existent happiness for it. My finding Dr. Singh was a game-changer and although hesitant, I decided to give therapy a try. I have not looked back since. It has been a huge leap of faith and I am happy to have taken it.

Saxena T (Verified)

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4 months ago
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My entire personality changed after suffering from Covid in April this year. From getting out of bed in the morning to tackling a chore to going to work, my underlying sense of motivation that used to drive me from beginning to completion of any task at work and home just went away.The desire to work was replaced with constant anxiety and a feeling like not even stepping out of the house. My motivation which was my key activity to living a productive life just vanished and from a lively young person I became a listless brooding person. Without any desire to do anything it was hard for me to complete important tasks, find a work-life and home-life balance, and make the most of every day living leading to not only me being miserable but my old parents also being miserable for me and my wife and small child being neglected for even the small things that are needed to be done in the house. For the first time in my life I found that I was floating from day to day and week two week with just no desire to do anything. I was so afraid of failure with emotions of embarrassment, sadness, worry, and stress. It took me two months to seek help and this first step was not easy. It was a muddy one, with unpleasant feelings, and they can be difficult to process healthily, as I felt that I am not a mental retard. Now when I look back I feel that It is possible that people who are scared of failure would rather do nothing at all than feel they need help at something. Dr Singh said that sometimes if a person is extremely overwhelmed, the individual can retreat into a make believe world and avoid all of the tasks they are supposed to be completing. That was me What I can say to my generation of people is that at the end of the day, motivation is different for every single person. Try to Identify poor habits and patterns and take help to find those intrinsic motivations and really use them to your advantage. There will always be stumbling blocks along the way, but every step forward however small is progress as I learnt. Take help, try and find a person who understands you and stick to a treatment plan, as I did.

R. Sehegal (Verified)

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5 months ago
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I Used to stay away from my parents since I started college and I was not be able to discuss much of my life with them. I have a elder brother so my parents gave most of their attention to him. Once in college I started feeling very lonely and hung out with a group of friends who seemed to accept me with all my flaws. Later I met a boy through my friends and he was too good to be true. He made me feel very loved and cherished and we went out and hung out a lot. We would go out shopping and explore new cafes and he told me all about his life and his family and I became very sympathetic towards him. We got into a proper relationship and 7 months in it he started cheaating on me. Keyword go out with other girls behind my back and go on car rides with them and I would not know about it since I would be studying for my exams. He would also go to oyos and get intimate with them and I would never get to know till the very end. Then when I would question him he would start just fine and become very passive aggresive towards me. There came a time when he hit me once and started abusing me every time I suspected him of doing something wrong which he actually did. The girls who he was with while being with me showed me messages and pictures of him and his advances towards them. Then he would try in say that he would like to marry me and I should talk to my parents about him. When it came down to finances he would ask me to borrow money from my parents so that we could stabilize ourself and get married. Once I started giving him money he started abusing me for more and kept on cheaating on me. I became so helpless that when I turns towards my parents for help they refused to get involved. Then I went to my close friend who suggested that I break away from my relationship and concentrate on my final year and visit GB Singh Sir. I broke the relationship with his help and he spoke to my father to help me and also pay for my treatment. His care and understanding was very nice and humble.

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4 months ago
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Dr Singh has been a welcome addition to our family and as a person we can go to in a completely secure environment. My girlfriend and I have dated for almost 5 years before getting married. But the lack of consideration of boundaries in her never stopped. Even after six years of being together, she insists on having a look at my phone when I am in the bathroom and she also likes to go through my office bag and this irritates me very badly then there is a fight in our house on a weekly basis, I would say on every second day when I see what she is doing. I think she does not respect my privacy and to have my own things because I don't think I have to share all my thoughts with her because some of them are related to my work where I don't think my wife can help me. I never imagined in the five years that we were dating with each other that she would have this need to be correct all the time and that due to her own insecurities and self-esteem issues she would never allow me to talk and would cut me off every time by saying she knows and then the same cycle of saying sorry again and again and again and again just has driven me so craazy that I would have dumped her if the problem was not solved. It is not funny when I am expected to step up even though she never communicates what she wants to meet. It's been a very good experience in the sessions we had because some of the diagnosis we have done although alien to us have helped me a lot because I don't think my girlfriend and my wife would have believed me had I said the same things to her in detail and probably I may not have been able to show her what is going on because we never could have imagined the reasons for what she was doing. I also would say thank you to my wife because she made a lot of effort and was able to accept a different viewpoint from a elderly person whom she could relate to being her fathers age and I think that also helped a lot. What I don't understand is that we are attending such advanced colleges we are dating each other and then getting married but the cultural change in our mental status is not happening and before marriage the entire situation is different and after marriage the expectations change so much.There is no clarity in expectations.

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4 months ago
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Before we got married I think the first thing we should have done is entering to premarital counselling. I am not saying this because my marriage turned out to be a complete disster but definitely being married to somebody who's tastes who's likes and dislikes are completely different from my own has not been easy on me. At the time we came into therapy, we were completely turned off from each other. We both were in a lot of pain, or so I would like to think , but I think more than my wife it was me who was in pain and who has been insisting for such a long time that we enter into counselling that the entire process of meeting different psychologists was so superficial. Every time we spoke to someone and we spoke about intimacy and sexuality I was always told that do I have to talk about love because marriage is all about commitment and character. I don't think anybody understands that is it my job to just work and bring money and keep working for my family ??? . My anger is also directed and the fact that why is it that society just expects a man to keep working and fulfilling his duty while neglecting his own happiness perpetually for his family's happiness??? It has been so hard to get my wife into counselling that by the time we reached Mr Singh, I had given up completely that anything will work. We have engaged in counseling on a weekly basis for 6 months and then done monthly sessions for 6 months after that and hats off to Dr Singh that he has succeeded in taking my marriage off the ledge and making it to a healthier place to be in. I will be honest at the fact that we were able to learn to communicate better with each other and my wife has become very open to listening to me before reacting but the whole enjoyment and the whole process of being married has led to so much tiredness that I feel as if the last 10 years have been wasted of my life and the life of my wife because we definitely could have been happier with someone else rather than live the way we have. I'm sure things will be better now with certain realities in place but honestly I think that premarital counselling is very essential in India because time is changing and no one feels like wanting to be in a marriage which is more like a prison.

Verified Patient

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3 months ago
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My husband and me started therapy about 1 year ago and then give it up after 2 weeks because there was internal fight in the house whether it would help us or not. Then six months ago we came back to Dr Singh and we have been in continuous therapy since then on a weekly basis this is what I have to say we came fighting and literally clawing at each others neck, and we have now reached a stage as a family. we were totally a dysfunctional family and today we are a functional family because of the persistence with which Dr Singh has helped both of us understand the flaws in our thinking. I used to be of the opinion that all marriages have the same flaws and all marriages have the same reasons for fighting and becoming dysfunctional, but after going through psychological therapy I realise that no two fights are the same and that every issue has a different cause I would highly recommend to a lot of families that they should seek preventive help rather than reach a stage where they completely cannot talk to each other the way we did . I really wish we had stayed in therapy about a year ago but at the same time I am happy that we came back , and we persisted and today we have a much better understanding of day-to-day life , coming from two completely different background and two completely different family value systems. Thank you

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2 months ago
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After experiencing an Anxiety episode and being diagnosed with a Depressive disorder, my daughter faced unique challenges to her personal identity. The symptoms of psychosis, and the general cognitive impairment that typically accompanies psychosis, made her feel alienated from herself. At the same time, the loss of roles and relationships she went through for 8 months and the internalisation of stigma against her within the joint family, made her feel disconnected from others. Her life story become so painful and fragmented, that even Dr Singh felt that how would we succeed. But constantly persisting we saw sudden personal growth. We have seen her learning important things about herself through her experience which answered a lot of questions about her identity in life and given me a humility in how I look at reality. Working along with my daughter and the doctor, I like to think so at least made me a better human.

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